chore: Use pass_through instead of strict in narwhals.from_native, use stable.v1 API more

[MarcoGorelli]

I'm addressing the API mix noted in #3690

Also, seeing as 1.13.1 is now the minimum, you can now use pass_through instead of strict (https://narwhals-dev.github.io/narwhals/backcompat/#after-stablev1)

[dangotbanned]

@MarcoGorelli do you know if we could use a ruff rule for the narwhals imports?

If we had something like this, but suggesting the stable.v1 path it would be quite handy

altair/pyproject.toml

Lines 393 to 400 in 936c0af

	[tool.ruff.lint.flake8-tidy-imports.banned-api]
	# https://docs.astral.sh/ruff/settings/#lint_flake8-tidy-imports_banned-api
	"typing.Optional".msg = """
	Use `Union[T, None]` instead.
	`typing.Optional` is likely to be confused with `altair.typing.Optional`, \
	which have a similar but different semantic meaning.
	See https://github.com/vega/altair/pull/3449
	"""

[dangotbanned]

Thanks again @MarcoGorelli