feat(db): optimize the auto-stop logic

[halibobo1205]

What does this PR do?
1. print an error and exit when the parameter is illegal
2. print an error and exit when more than one parameter is set
Why are these changes required?

This PR has been tested by:

• Unit Tests
• Manual Testing

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Codecov Report

Merging #4858 (a4373c2) into release_v4.7.0 (eb0065c) will decrease coverage by 0.18%.
The diff coverage is 37.03%.

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- Coverage             53.52%   53.33%   -0.19%     
+ Complexity             8028     8006      -22     
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  Files                   830      830              
  Lines                 48825    48862      +37     
  Branches               5355     5363       +8     
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- Hits                  26132    26059      -73     
- Misses                20649    20746      +97     
- Partials               2044     2057      +13     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
common/src/main/java/org/tron/core/Constant.java	50.00% <ø> (ø)
...mework/src/main/java/org/tron/core/db/Manager.java	52.59% <27.50%> (-1.90%)	⬇️
...ava/org/tron/common/parameter/CommonParameter.java	55.87% <50.00%> (-0.04%)	⬇️
.../src/main/java/org/tron/core/config/args/Args.java	59.75% <50.00%> (-1.87%)	⬇️
...c/main/java/org/tron/core/net/TronNetDelegate.java	41.26% <66.66%> (+1.92%)	⬆️
...rc/main/java/org/tron/core/net/TronNetService.java	98.48% <100.00%> (+0.02%)	⬆️
...org/tron/core/exception/ItemNotFoundException.java	33.33% <0.00%> (-33.34%)	⬇️
.../main/java/org/tron/core/net/peer/PeerManager.java	16.85% <0.00%> (-20.23%)	⬇️
...src/main/java/org/tron/core/db/PendingManager.java	34.88% <0.00%> (-16.28%)	⬇️
.../java/org/tron/common/setting/RocksDbSettings.java	88.70% <0.00%> (-9.68%)	⬇️
... and 19 more

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