🐛 Fix auth redirect issue after logout

[aaronleopold]

This PR should fix a bit of an annoying bug which caused an overload of history pushes after login in a very specific scenario. At first, I thought this was just a quirk of having 3-4 testing instances of Stump with competing cookies causing flakes. The issue seemed to present when you manually log out and try to re-auth immediately.

The actual cause was that the query cache for fetching the logged in user did not clear correctly after logout. A logout triggered a refetch, which returned a 401. When you re-logged in (without a full browser refresh) that 401 remained the non-stale result so you immediately would get smacked back into auth, and then back, and then back again, etc.

The fix was really a mix of a few things:

• Update the delete cookie response for 401 API errors to have SameSite attribute
  • Make the logout API response encourage cookie deletion
• Remove all navigation from effects (in relevant auth flow)
• Ensure the me query is re-fetched before navigating to the page which would otherwise send you back to /auth

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Codecov Report

Attention: Patch coverage is 4.76190% with 20 lines in your changes missing coverage. Please review.

Files with missing lines	Patch %	Lines
apps/server/src/routers/api/v1/auth.rs	0.00%	20 Missing ⚠️

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apps/server/src/config/session/utils.rs	29.03% <100.00%> (ø)
apps/server/src/routers/api/v1/auth.rs	0.00% <0.00%> (ø)