Fix tests-py-dynamo-cudagraphs in Windows test

[HolyWu]

Description

• Fix incorrect yml and pre-script being used in tests-py-dynamo-cudagraphs.
• Add -ra argument to remaining tests.
• Make -n argument consistent with Linux test.

Type of change

• Bug fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)

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• I have made corresponding changes to the documentation
• I have added tests to verify my fix or my feature
• New and existing unit tests pass locally with my changes
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[narendasan]

LGTM