[Scenes] Add support for enabling and disabling endpoints in SceneTable and Scenes Server

[lpbeliveau-silabs]

Current implementation doesn't interact with dynamically generated endpoints, needs to properly handle creation and deletion of dynamically created endpoints as well as Enabling/disabling fixed endpoints.

Mentioned in this PR in comments:

• https://github.com/project-chip/connectedhomeip/pull/26186/files#r1206103477
• https://github.com/project-chip/connectedhomeip/pull/26186/files#r1206106970
• https://github.com/project-chip/connectedhomeip/pull/26186/files#r1206113491
• https://github.com/project-chip/connectedhomeip/pull/26186/files#r1206151172

[bzbarsky-apple]

This is not just about dynamic endpoints. Enabling/disabling fixed endpoints is also broken with scenes as currently written.

[lpbeliveau-silabs]

Also mentioned here:
https://github.com/project-chip/connectedhomeip/pull/29639/files#r1349474273

The feature map logic should be moved from the server init to the per-endpoint init.