lightning: unlimited grpc MaxCallRecvMsgSize for TikvImporter (#56771)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #56771

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #56114

Problem Summary: Currently, we comply with the default max-message-size=4MiB, but TiKVImporter may receive max 4k KV on each response, and each KV can be about 4KiB+, which exceeds the default limit easily.

What changed and how does it work?

Set grpc options MaxCallRecvMsgSize to math.MaxInt32 (2GiB), i.e., unlimited in most scenarios. This number also aligns with the default setting for MaxCallSendMsgSize in gRPC.

MaxCallRecvMsgSize is only for resource control and there will not be any extra memory consumption. Please refer to the discussions below.

Check List

Tests

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  • I checked and no code files have been changed.

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

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• Affects user behaviors
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• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Timeline:

• 2025-02-17 03:32:12.184983099 +0000 UTC m=+845774.581205160: ☑️ agreed by tangenta.
• 2025-02-17 07:10:30.488248779 +0000 UTC m=+858872.884470838: ☑️ agreed by D3Hunter.

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