ddl: table meta should store column without db and table name (#50978)

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This is an automated cherry-pick of #50978

What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: close #50972

What changed and how does it work?

When storing an expression in table meta, the column name should be restored without db and table name to make sure the meta is still valid after renaming a table.

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• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
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• Changes MySQL compatibility

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fix a issue that some DDL will hang in some some cases.

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Timeline:

• 2024-02-07 03:11:50.323917258 +0000 UTC m=+326435.890687144: ☑️ agreed by lcwangchao.
• 2024-02-07 03:16:54.354374734 +0000 UTC m=+326739.921144623: ☑️ agreed by zimulala.

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