parser: support hash_join_build and hash_join_probe

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What problem does this PR solve?

Issue Number: ref #36615

Problem Summary:
Change hash_build and hash_probe to hash_join_build and hash_join_probe.

What is changed and how it works?

Change hash_build and hash_probe to hash_join_build and hash_join_probe.

Check List

Tests

• Unit test
• Integration test
• Manual test (add detailed scripts or steps below)
• No code

Side effects

• Performance regression: Consumes more CPU
• Performance regression: Consumes more Memory
• Breaking backward compatibility

Documentation

• Affects user behaviors
• Contains syntax changes
• Contains variable changes
• Contains experimental features
• Changes MySQL compatibility

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Code Coverage Details: https://codecov.io/github/pingcap/tidb/commit/fa8edd9e0eb53e0e00cfc5bd2c548517e4c03ec8

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Commit hash: 7da1865

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TiDB MergeCI notify

🔴 Bad News! [2] CI still failing after this pr merged.
These failed integration tests don't seem to be introduced by the current PR.

CI Name	Result	Duration	Compare with Parent commit
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-common-test	🔴 failed 2, success 15, total 17	15 min	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/common-test	🔴 failed 2, success 9, total 11	12 min	Existing failure
idc-jenkins-ci/integration-cdc-test	🟢 all 36 tests passed	29 min	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/tics-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	6 min 51 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-ddl-test	🟢 all 6 tests passed	6 min 1 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-2	🟢 all 28 tests passed	5 min 29 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/sqllogic-test-1	🟢 all 26 tests passed	4 min 52 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/mybatis-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	3 min 31 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/integration-compatibility-test	🟢 all 1 tests passed	3 min 12 sec	Existing passed
idc-jenkins-ci-tidb/plugin-test	🟢 build success, plugin test success	4min	Existing passed