chore: fix cargo feature warning

[0xalpharush]

I was getting the following warning when try to build with --features arbitrary:

Using dep: syntax in Cargo.toml makes it impossible to enable features for dependencies unless you also have a feature by that name 

This seems to fix it but I'm honestly not sure what the expected behavior of cargo is (rust-lang/cargo#10788 was closed as fixed)

[Rjected]

what's the full cargo command, and which directory is it being run in? Adding an arbitrary feature here shouldn't be necessary

[0xalpharush]

$ cd ./crates/net/eth-wire cargo metadata --features arbitrary --features serde 
error: Package `reth-cli-commands v1.1.0 (/Users/troysargent/reth/crates/cli/commands)` does not have feature `arbitrary`. It has an optional dependency with that name, but that dependency uses the "dep:" syntax in the features table, so it does not have an implicit feature with that name.

[mattsse]

this could have something to do with the name dev

we should just rename dev to arbitrary because the dev feature here only enables arbitrary related features