Add Remote "-status" command to see if a server is running and where #3922

Job	Run time
git_checks	10s
format	27s
CodeQL (cpp)	20m 37s
docker (ubuntu-bionic)	8m 1s
linux_el8 (el8, icc, ompi)	49m 26s
linux_el8 (el8, oneapi, ompi)	54m 49s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, shared, ompi)	39m 57s
macos (macos11, serial)	28m 30s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc9, shared, ompi)	1h 19m 9s
windows (win2019, serial)	15m 55s
macos (macos12, serial)	3m 15s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc10, shared, ompi)	1h 15m 52s
windows (win2019, ompi)	14m 8s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc11, shared, ompi)	37m 50s
windows (win2022, serial)	9m 42s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, shared, ompi)	27m 57s
windows (win2022, ompi)	13m 29s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang10, shared, ompi)	31m 27s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc10, mpich)	1h 0m 27s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, serial)	10m 23s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, serial)	4m 57s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, static, ompi, build_only)	10m 7s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, clang6, static, ompi, build_only)	4m 8s
linux_ubuntu (ubuntu20.04, gcc8, static, serial)	4m 31s
contract (lammps)	4m 12s
contract (tau)	23m 26s
build_and_test	0s
	10h 32m 52s

Provide feedback