Fix daemon suicide and preserve output files

Correctly set parent rank so that the OOB can
correctly identify its lifeline and cause the
daemon to abort when it dies. Fix the
`--debug-daemons-file` flag so it works, and
preserve the resulting output file from cleanup.

Signed-off-by: Ralph Castain <rhc@pmix.org>
(cherry picked from commit a87d172)

src/mca/ess/base/ess_base_std_prted.c

@@ -539,12 +539,6 @@ int prte_ess_base_prted_finalize(void)
         signals_set = false;
     }
 
-    /* cleanup */
-    if (NULL != log_path) {
-        unlink(log_path);
-    }
-
-
     if (NULL != prte_errmgr.finalize) {
         prte_errmgr.finalize();
     }

src/rml/rml.c

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@
  * Copyright (c) 2014-2019 Intel, Inc.  All rights reserved.
  * Copyright (c) 2015-2019 Research Organization for Information Science
  *                         and Technology (RIST).  All rights reserved.
- * Copyright (c) 2021-2023 Nanook Consulting.  All rights reserved.
+ * Copyright (c) 2021-2024 Nanook Consulting  All rights reserved.
  * $COPYRIGHT$
  *
  * Additional copyrights may follow
@@ -100,11 +100,12 @@ void prte_rml_open(void)
     PMIX_CONSTRUCT(&prte_rml_base.posted_recvs, pmix_list_t);
     PMIX_CONSTRUCT(&prte_rml_base.unmatched_msgs, pmix_list_t);
     PMIX_CONSTRUCT(&prte_rml_base.children, pmix_list_t);
-    prte_rml_base.lifeline = PRTE_PROC_MY_PARENT->rank;
 
     /* compute the routing tree - only thing we need to know is the
      * number of daemons in the DVM */
     prte_rml_compute_routing_tree();
+
+    prte_rml_base.lifeline = PRTE_PROC_MY_PARENT->rank;
 }
 
 void prte_rml_send_callback(int status, pmix_proc_t *peer,

src/tools/prte/prte.c

@@ -534,6 +534,9 @@ int main(int argc, char *argv[])
     if (pmix_cmd_line_is_taken(&results, PRTE_CLI_DEBUG_DAEMONS)) {
         prte_debug_daemons_flag = true;
     }
+    if (pmix_cmd_line_is_taken(&results, PRTE_CLI_DEBUG_DAEMONS_FILE)) {
+        prte_debug_daemons_file_flag = true;
+    }
     if (pmix_cmd_line_is_taken(&results, PRTE_CLI_LEAVE_SESSION_ATTACHED)) {
         prte_leave_session_attached = true;
     }