support specified-delete in asts

Signed-off-by: Abner-1 <yuanyuxing.yyx@alibaba-inc.com>

pkg/controller/statefulset/stateful_set_control.go

@@ -45,6 +45,7 @@ import (
 	imagejobutilfunc "github.com/openkruise/kruise/pkg/util/imagejob/utilfunction"
 	"github.com/openkruise/kruise/pkg/util/inplaceupdate"
 	"github.com/openkruise/kruise/pkg/util/lifecycle"
+	"github.com/openkruise/kruise/pkg/util/specifieddelete"
 )
 
 // Realistic value for maximum in-flight requests when processing in parallel mode.
@@ -1033,7 +1034,7 @@ func (ssc *defaultStatefulSetControl) processReplica(
 	// (e.g. terminated on node reboot) is determined by the exit code of the
 	// container, not by the reason for pod termination. We should restart the pod
 	// regardless of the exit code.
-	if isFailed(replicas[i]) || isSucceeded(replicas[i]) {
+	if isFailed(replicas[i]) || isSucceeded(replicas[i]) || specifieddelete.IsSpecifiedDelete(replicas[i]) {
 		if replicas[i].DeletionTimestamp == nil {
 			if _, err := ssc.deletePod(set, replicas[i]); err != nil {
 				return true, false, err