fix(vite): support passing --watch to inferred vitest commands (#23298)

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## Current Behavior
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We currently do not handle passing `--watch` when running inferred
`vitest` commands

## Expected Behavior
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We should support handling `--watch`

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Fixes #23185

packages/vite/src/plugins/__snapshots__/plugin-vitest.spec.ts.snap

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin root project should create nodes 1`] = `
       "targets": {
         "test": {
           "cache": true,
-          "command": "vitest run",
+          "command": "vitest",
           "inputs": [
             "default",
             "^production",
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin root project should create nodes 1`] = `
           ],
           "options": {
             "cwd": ".",
+            "watch": false,
           },
           "outputs": [
             "{projectRoot}/coverage",

packages/vite/src/plugins/__snapshots__/plugin-with-test.spec.ts.snap

@@ -8,7 +8,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin with test node root project should create nodes - with
       "targets": {
         "test": {
           "cache": true,
-          "command": "vitest run",
+          "command": "vitest",
           "inputs": [
             "default",
             "^production",
@@ -20,6 +20,7 @@ exports[`@nx/vite/plugin with test node root project should create nodes - with
           ],
           "options": {
             "cwd": ".",
+            "watch": false,
           },
           "outputs": [
             "{projectRoot}/coverage",

packages/vite/src/plugins/plugin.ts

@@ -215,8 +215,8 @@ async function testTarget(
   projectRoot: string
 ) {
   return {
-    command: `vitest run`,
-    options: { cwd: joinPathFragments(projectRoot) },
+    command: `vitest`,
+    options: { cwd: joinPathFragments(projectRoot), watch: false },
     cache: true,
     inputs: [
       ...('production' in namedInputs