src: support sync 'overlapped' stdio option

[bnoordhuis]

Fix an oversight in the pull request that introduced the 'overlapped' option to the asynchronous child process methods, and also add it to the synchronous methods, like child_process.spawnSync().

Fixes: #48476
Refs: #29412

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Related CI failures:

not ok 394 parallel/test-child-process-stdio-overlapped
  ---
  duration_ms: 235.92300
  severity: fail
  exitcode: 1
  stack: |-
    node:assert:408
        throw err;
        ^
    
    AssertionError [ERR_ASSERTION]: The expression evaluated to a falsy value:
    
      assert.ok(error)
    
        at Object.<anonymous> (/home/iojs/build/workspace/node-test-commit-smartos/nodes/smartos20-64/test/parallel/test-child-process-stdio-overlapped.js:48:8)
        at Module._compile (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1434:14)
        at Module._extensions..js (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1518:10)
        at Module.load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1249:32)
        at Module._load (node:internal/modules/cjs/loader:1065:12)
        at Function.executeUserEntryPoint [as runMain] (node:internal/modules/run_main:158:12)
        at node:internal/main/run_main_module:30:49 {
      generatedMessage: true,
      code: 'ERR_ASSERTION',
      actual: undefined,
      expected: true,
      operator: '=='
    }
    
    Node.js v23.0.0-pre