tools: update gyp to node-gyp@v5.0.3

[sam-github]

Process:

cd tools
rm -rf gyp
git clone git@github.com:nodejs/node-gyp.git
(cd node-gyp && git checkout v5.0.3)
mv node-gyp/gyp .
rm -rf node-gyp
git add -A gyp

Fixes: #28555

Checklist

• make -j4 test (UNIX), or vcbuild test (Windows) passes
• tests and/or benchmarks are included
• documentation is changed or added
• commit message follows commit guidelines

[sam-github]

NOTE The commit message describes exactly what I did.

#28555 is the discussion of whether this is even a good idea.

I don't know if this drops changes, or if all our local changes were upstreamed. That will have to be checked, but I'm not sure I have the relevant context or knowlege to evaluate that, so consider this a WIP, perhaps?

[bnoordhuis]

I don't know if this drops changes, or if all our local changes were upstreamed.

It does and they weren't. :-(

[Trott]

I don't know if this drops changes, or if all our local changes were upstreamed.

It does and they weren't. :-(

Does it make sense to close this and open a fresh PR to upgrade or keep working on this one?

[sam-github]

I'll close, we still need a plan, and it'll be more complicated than this.