[stable14] Do not calculate folder size for parent that also needs proper scan, fixes #3524

[backportbot-nextcloud]

backport of #14425

[faily-bot]

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Here are the logs for the failed build:

Status of 16871: failure

TESTS=acceptance, TESTS-ACCEPTANCE=app-comments

• cancelled - typically means that the tests took longer than the drone CI allows them to run

TESTS=acceptance, TESTS-ACCEPTANCE=app-files

• tests/acceptance/features/app-files.feature:108
• tests/acceptance/features/app-files.feature:115

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  Scenario: show shares                                               # /drone/src/github.com/nextcloud/server/tests/acceptance/features/app-files.feature:108
    Given I am logged in                                              # LoginPageContext::iAmLoggedIn()
    And I share the link for "welcome.txt"                            # FilesAppSharingContext::iShareTheLinkFor()
    When I open the "Shares" section                                  # AppNavigationContext::iOpenTheSection()
    Then I see that the current section is "Shares"                   # AppNavigationContext::iSeeThatTheCurrentSectionIs()
    Then I see that the file list contains a file named "welcome.txt" # FileListContext::iSeeThatTheFileListContainsAFileNamed()
      Row for file welcome.txt in file list could not be found after 100 seconds (NoSuchElementException)

  Scenario: show shares for a second time                             # /drone/src/github.com/nextcloud/server/tests/acceptance/features/app-files.feature:115
    Given I am logged in                                              # LoginPageContext::iAmLoggedIn()
    And I open the "Shares" section                                   # AppNavigationContext::iOpenTheSection()
    And I see that the current section is "Shares"                    # AppNavigationContext::iSeeThatTheCurrentSectionIs()
    And I open the "All files" section                                # AppNavigationContext::iOpenTheSection()
    And I see that the current section is "All files"                 # AppNavigationContext::iSeeThatTheCurrentSectionIs()
    And I share the link for "welcome.txt"                            # FilesAppSharingContext::iShareTheLinkFor()
    When I open the "Shares" section                                  # AppNavigationContext::iOpenTheSection()
    Then I see that the current section is "Shares"                   # AppNavigationContext::iSeeThatTheCurrentSectionIs()
    Then I see that the file list contains a file named "welcome.txt" # FileListContext::iSeeThatTheFileListContainsAFileNamed()
      Row for file welcome.txt in file list could not be found after 100 seconds (NoSuchElementException)

TESTS=acceptance, TESTS-ACCEPTANCE=app-files-sharing

• cancelled - typically means that the tests took longer than the drone CI allows them to run

TESTS=acceptance, TESTS-ACCEPTANCE=users

• cancelled - typically means that the tests took longer than the drone CI allows them to run