feat: support setting kubelet path for blobfuse-proxy endpoint

[cvvz]

What type of PR is this?
/kind feature

What this PR does / why we need it:

Which issue(s) this PR fixes:

Fixes #1236

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• uses conventional commit messages
• includes documentation
• adds unit tests
• tested upgrade from previous version

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Release note:

feat: support setting kubelet path for blobfuse-proxy endpoint

[andyzhangx]

/lgtm

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[andyzhangx]

/cherrypick release-1.24

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@andyzhangx: #1325 failed to apply on top of branch "release-1.24":

Applying: fix: support setting kubelet path for blobfuse-proxy endpoint
Applying: fix
warning: Cannot merge binary files: charts/latest/blob-csi-driver-v0.0.0.tgz (HEAD vs. fix)
Using index info to reconstruct a base tree...
M	charts/latest/blob-csi-driver-v0.0.0.tgz
Falling back to patching base and 3-way merge...
Auto-merging charts/latest/blob-csi-driver-v0.0.0.tgz
CONFLICT (content): Merge conflict in charts/latest/blob-csi-driver-v0.0.0.tgz
error: Failed to merge in the changes.
hint: Use 'git am --show-current-patch=diff' to see the failed patch
Patch failed at 0002 fix
When you have resolved this problem, run "git am --continue".
If you prefer to skip this patch, run "git am --skip" instead.
To restore the original branch and stop patching, run "git am --abort".

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/cherrypick release-1.24

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[andyzhangx]

@cvvz can you cherrypick to release-1.24? thanks.