fix(secrets): Minimize secret holding time

[srebhan]

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relates to #12924
based on #12919

In some places we hold the secrets longer than necessary or, in inputs.sqlserver, we spawn too many accesses to secrets. We recently discovered that this might lead to exceeding the limit of locked memory.
This PR fixes all known locations and optimizes the access in inputs.sqlserver.

[srebhan]

Based on #13012 and #12919 and should be merged after those...

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