chore: intellij cleanup

[Salakar]

Description

Cleaning up old/stale *.iml files generated by intellij, these were already in .gitignore but were not deleted so they remained. Some tweaks to melos.yaml also.

Changes in prep for IntelliJ support landing on Melos;

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