chore: update and fix libp2p

[Stebalien]

1. This pulls in a multistream fix that should fix that fixes a few tests (and probably a few actual bugs).
2. This deduplicates dependencies that have been merged into the monorepo.

fixes #8953

[codecov]

Codecov Report

Merging #8996 (6bed08f) into master (d8398ed) will increase coverage by 5.43%.
The diff coverage is n/a.

@@            Coverage Diff             @@
##           master    #8996      +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   35.15%   40.58%   +5.43%     
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  Files         703      707       +4     
  Lines       78492    78716     +224     
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+ Hits        27592    31948    +4356     
+ Misses      45906    41294    -4612     
- Partials     4994     5474     +480     

Impacted Files	Coverage Δ
node/modules/lp2p/libp2p.go	34.69% <ø> (ø)
node/modules/lp2p/transport.go	29.41% <ø> (ø)
chain/events/state/fastapi.go	75.00% <0.00%> (-25.00%)	⬇️
chain/events/message_cache.go	87.50% <0.00%> (-12.50%)	⬇️
storage/pipeline/currentdealinfo.go	76.19% <0.00%> (-2.39%)	⬇️
itests/kit/blockminer.go	69.56% <0.00%> (-1.09%)	⬇️
storage/pipeline/states_sealing.go	38.54% <0.00%> (-0.89%)	⬇️
miner/miner.go	58.03% <0.00%> (-0.33%)	⬇️
node/impl/storminer.go	23.78% <0.00%> (-0.31%)	⬇️
chain/stmgr/call.go	66.66% <0.00%> (ø)
... and 147 more

[jennijuju]

fix the thing ✅