Adjust skipBalance logic

[acolytec3]

Updates changes in #1849 with some recommendations from hardhat. Primarily, instead of just adding the tx cost or message value to the caller balance when skipBalance is set, we now only touch the balance if it's less than the transaction's cost (i.e. gasLimit *gasPrice + tx.value or maxFeePerGas * gasLimit + value if an EIP 1559 tx).

[jochem-brouwer]

2 notes:

(1) this PR should be rebased/merge master (there is a conflict)

(2) I think we should add documentation about the behavior of skipBalance. The current documentation does not really explain what is going on;

ethereumjs-monorepo/packages/vm/src/types.ts

Lines 234 to 237 in c4b7c91

	/**
	* If true, skips the balance check
	*/
	skipBalance?: boolean

ethereumjs-monorepo/packages/evm/src/types.ts

Lines 128 to 131 in c4b7c91

	/**
	* Skip balance checks if true. Adds transaction value to balance to ensure execution doesn't fail.
	*/
	skipBalance?: boolean

[acolytec3]

Closing and replacing with #2172