feat(op-conductor): implement startup handshake

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Description

Implement startup handshake, this is used to make sure that both conductor and sequencer are configured properly in HA setup.

This PR prevents the situation that conductor is configured and running, but op-node did not enable conductor, this situation allows conductor to control (start / stop) sequencer, but not with sequencer committing unsafe payload into conductor, which is dangerous in faulty situations.

For op-conductor:

1. Waits for op-node to start
2. if cannot reach op-node, exit
3. check if conductor is enabled on op-node, if not, exit

Tests

1. Covered by existing e2e tests.
2. Tested in testnet

Metadata

• Unrelated, but resolves one todo: op-node: sequencer does not check op-conductor on node startup #11121

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[tynes]

This seems generally good but will defer to a code owner to approve