Problem: cross-compiling don't work

[yihuang]

Solution:

• support cross-compiling in most of cases, now we can release all rocksdb enabled binaries in github action without emulator.
• need a few tweaks on upstream

Support cross-compiling modes:

Build Machine	Host Machine
Linux	Linux of different architecture
Linux	Windows(mingwW64)
x86_64-darwin	aarch64-darwin

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