branch-3.0: [fix](statistics)Show table stats need to forward to master use FORWARD_NO_SYNC #48189

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Cherry-picked from #48189

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run buildall

[doris-robot]

TPC-H: Total hot run time: 40533 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpch-tools
Tpch sf100 test result on commit a0d7772c4c82ea809371e60549675819594a90d6, data reload: false

------ Round 1 ----------------------------------
q1	17586	7402	7188	7188
q2	2066	170	166	166
q3	10630	1046	1169	1046
q4	10550	737	781	737
q5	7740	2848	2770	2770
q6	238	151	146	146
q7	968	609	593	593
q8	9596	1892	2016	1892
q9	6814	6370	6316	6316
q10	6996	2295	2292	2292
q11	468	272	254	254
q12	395	216	213	213
q13	17781	2992	2983	2983
q14	233	214	224	214
q15	567	522	520	520
q16	654	578	616	578
q17	965	588	604	588
q18	7162	6641	6565	6565
q19	1415	1071	1009	1009
q20	486	203	200	200
q21	3972	3309	3330	3309
q22	1106	1003	954	954
Total cold run time: 108388 ms
Total hot run time: 40533 ms

----- Round 2, with runtime_filter_mode=off -----
q1	7216	7195	7198	7195
q2	327	243	234	234
q3	2832	2903	2927	2903
q4	2075	1800	1813	1800
q5	5685	5675	5733	5675
q6	221	139	141	139
q7	2291	1793	1875	1793
q8	3336	3493	3506	3493
q9	8768	8945	8903	8903
q10	3641	3578	3561	3561
q11	611	501	506	501
q12	790	615	583	583
q13	10571	3129	3195	3129
q14	302	271	287	271
q15	575	528	528	528
q16	671	644	670	644
q17	1830	1625	1602	1602
q18	8251	7778	7652	7652
q19	1663	1607	1446	1446
q20	2089	1870	1872	1870
q21	5578	5335	5318	5318
q22	1138	1042	1032	1032
Total cold run time: 70461 ms
Total hot run time: 60272 ms

[doris-robot]

TPC-DS: Total hot run time: 198367 ms

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/tpcds-tools
TPC-DS sf100 test result on commit a0d7772c4c82ea809371e60549675819594a90d6, data reload: false

query1	1297	945	920	920
query2	6239	2101	2038	2038
query3	10821	4273	4214	4214
query4	66299	28735	23820	23820
query5	4975	451	454	451
query6	411	180	169	169
query7	5508	315	313	313
query8	310	222	227	222
query9	8773	2721	2730	2721
query10	441	292	258	258
query11	17202	15300	15806	15300
query12	165	104	105	104
query13	1464	439	419	419
query14	9775	7152	7419	7152
query15	205	179	189	179
query16	7199	506	524	506
query17	1107	598	585	585
query18	1869	349	322	322
query19	203	164	156	156
query20	118	116	113	113
query21	213	105	107	105
query22	4815	4373	4434	4373
query23	34560	34144	34382	34144
query24	6130	3083	3005	3005
query25	539	442	430	430
query26	651	168	170	168
query27	1765	367	369	367
query28	4258	2466	2437	2437
query29	713	479	460	460
query30	261	170	184	170
query31	1028	791	816	791
query32	68	54	61	54
query33	423	281	296	281
query34	922	511	529	511
query35	862	725	708	708
query36	1079	1002	993	993
query37	123	81	77	77
query38	4144	4090	4015	4015
query39	1528	1491	1483	1483
query40	196	101	97	97
query41	49	46	49	46
query42	127	102	99	99
query43	549	499	496	496
query44	1187	851	829	829
query45	188	170	167	167
query46	1185	739	726	726
query47	2015	1914	1949	1914
query48	481	393	385	385
query49	736	424	391	391
query50	841	423	417	417
query51	7321	7190	7210	7190
query52	97	90	87	87
query53	261	178	182	178
query54	568	455	443	443
query55	77	75	78	75
query56	261	237	246	237
query57	1257	1099	1082	1082
query58	202	208	212	208
query59	3092	2922	2953	2922
query60	276	254	257	254
query61	110	106	110	106
query62	842	730	724	724
query63	210	184	192	184
query64	1392	669	656	656
query65	3274	3186	3222	3186
query66	712	308	302	302
query67	15925	15787	15663	15663
query68	3951	591	605	591
query69	438	261	263	261
query70	1164	1138	1075	1075
query71	358	278	249	249
query72	6390	4178	4036	4036
query73	767	352	346	346
query74	10599	9267	8916	8916
query75	3327	2629	2701	2629
query76	2031	1068	1073	1068
query77	503	266	264	264
query78	10472	9682	9669	9669
query79	2034	604	611	604
query80	1407	419	429	419
query81	529	239	239	239
query82	1292	119	112	112
query83	184	141	143	141
query84	285	91	79	79
query85	1000	320	313	313
query86	425	284	301	284
query87	4419	4314	4261	4261
query88	3992	2402	2362	2362
query89	422	292	294	292
query90	1940	181	191	181
query91	186	149	150	149
query92	63	51	52	51
query93	2996	556	555	555
query94	868	296	300	296
query95	358	261	257	257
query96	614	275	275	275
query97	3376	3199	3189	3189
query98	215	206	195	195
query99	1703	1411	1430	1411
Total cold run time: 320202 ms
Total hot run time: 198367 ms

[doris-robot]

ClickBench: Total hot run time: 32.95 s

machine: 'aliyun_ecs.c7a.8xlarge_32C64G'
scripts: https://github.com/apache/doris/tree/master/tools/clickbench-tools
ClickBench test result on commit a0d7772c4c82ea809371e60549675819594a90d6, data reload: false

query1	0.04	0.04	0.03
query2	0.07	0.03	0.03
query3	0.24	0.07	0.06
query4	1.62	0.10	0.10
query5	0.53	0.53	0.52
query6	1.14	0.72	0.72
query7	0.02	0.02	0.02
query8	0.04	0.04	0.03
query9	0.55	0.50	0.50
query10	0.55	0.55	0.56
query11	0.14	0.11	0.10
query12	0.14	0.11	0.10
query13	0.61	0.59	0.59
query14	2.70	2.85	2.89
query15	0.90	0.82	0.82
query16	0.37	0.39	0.41
query17	1.02	0.99	1.01
query18	0.24	0.22	0.22
query19	1.98	1.76	1.96
query20	0.01	0.02	0.01
query21	15.38	0.59	0.56
query22	3.05	1.81	2.46
query23	16.87	0.98	0.79
query24	3.19	1.71	1.18
query25	0.17	0.27	0.14
query26	0.48	0.14	0.15
query27	0.05	0.05	0.05
query28	10.09	1.11	1.08
query29	12.55	3.25	3.22
query30	0.24	0.06	0.06
query31	2.87	0.39	0.39
query32	3.24	0.46	0.45
query33	2.98	2.99	2.98
query34	17.15	4.45	4.47
query35	4.49	4.55	4.50
query36	0.68	0.47	0.48
query37	0.09	0.06	0.06
query38	0.05	0.03	0.04
query39	0.03	0.02	0.02
query40	0.17	0.13	0.12
query41	0.08	0.02	0.02
query42	0.04	0.02	0.02
query43	0.04	0.03	0.02
Total cold run time: 106.89 s
Total hot run time: 32.95 s

[Jibing-Li]

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