Allow statusListener to accept node instance instead of id

[GogoVega]

With the id addStatusListener needs to use setImmediate to set the status because at the time of the call the node has not yet been added to the API.

With this PR addStatusListener will be able to directly call node.status and avoid overwriting the current status of the node. e.g Permission Denied for Firebase and Firestore IN nodes.

Note: in a future PR, statusListener will no longer call node.status directly but an equivalent of node.setStatus. So that the status can be ignored (locally) if the node has a persistent status.