update fates pointer to api 25.5

[rgknox]

This set of changes brings compatibility with FATES up to API 25.5. The main changes to the
API update are a change to the FATES parameter file, and modifications to the coupling
interface to enable communication with drought deciduous plants.

[BFB] except for FATES

[rgknox]

This set of changes should enable and precede: #5689

[rgknox]

Still testing, @glemieux and I are working through some issues described here, that may be relevant: NGEET/fates#1041 (comment)
Will update when this is ready

[rgknox]

I think this is ready now.

Updated code, results should be and are, b4b with non-fates. fates runs are not expected to be b4b, and pass. tests run on perlmutter pm-cpu

This directory has tests against master and is relevant for non-fates tests:
/pscratch/sd/r/rgknox/e3sm_tests/Ef6d87064e2-Fe1a3f730-fates-api-25-5

Here are exceptions (assuming known fails?):
FAIL ERS_D.ne11_oQU240.I20TRELM.pm-cpu_gnu RUN time=197
FAIL ERS.r05_r05.RMOSGPCC.pm-cpu_gnu.mosart-heat RUN time=19

I'm ignoring TPUTCOMP, since its a red herring on pm-cpu, its flagging in tests where no code is changed.

This directory is relevant for fates-only tests, which tests updates f85dcf3 and later, which fixed a fates crash :
/pscratch/sd/r/rgknox/e3sm_tests/Ef397337924-F6d424f46-fates-api-25-5_v2