[pkg/otlp, pkg/trace] Bump OpenTelemetry Collector dependencies to v0.61.0

[mx-psi]

What does this PR do?

Bump OpenTelemetry Collector dependency to v0.61.0. Remove deprecated and removed methods.

Motivation

Keep up to date with upstream. Allow usage upstream.

Reviewer's Checklist

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[alai97]

Looks good, a period suggestion!