handle emty lists in assert_list_element_type and ensure proper ordering of arguments

[asirko-soft]

Currently matter_asserts.assert_list_element_type([], str, "test_empty") is not handled properly, this assertion passes. This needs to be fixed.

Other thing is that in assertion libraries, there's a common pattern where the actual value being tested comes first, followed by the expected value or condition. We need to follow this as well