Test how the user directory handles remote users

[DMRobertson]

All of the unit tests check the behaviour of the directory for local users. The implementation of the directory has many code paths that differ for local and remote users. We should have test coverage of these.

Fetching actual profiles over federation to properly fix #5677 will be involved and require mocking if we're going to make it a unit test. But it should be fairly straightforward to add tests that inspect the room-sharing tables for remote users. And thankfully, we don't have the (painful) business of directory exclusion to worry about for remote users.