incorrect hostname shown in titlemode when host is very long

[diracdeltas]

issue exists in 0.17.x but is fixed in 0.18.x by #9154

1. go to https://longextendedsubdomainnamewithoutdashesinordertotestwordwrapping.badssl.com/
2. mouse away from the urlbar to enter title mode
3. the origin is shown as 'longextendedsubdomainnamewithoutdashesinordertotestwordwrapping' instead of 'longextendedsubdomainnamewithoutdashesinordertotestwordwrapping.badssl.com'

[diracdeltas]

i verified that this is fixed by using node's url.parse instead of https://github.com/petkaantonov/urlparser/blob/master/src/urlparser.js, which we shouldn't use anyway because it appears to no longer be maintained.

it is also fixed by using muon.url.parse