Recreate Service instead of Patch for some changes (ClusterIP -> NodePort)

[UnamedRus]

For example, when people want to change ClusterIP service to NodePort, it produce incorrect configuration.

WA is manually remove ClusterIP service and reconcile CHI.

kubernetes/kubernetes#24040

[sunsingerus]

More info required. Proposed logic is already implemented in service reconciler
In case operator is unable to update the service, it is recreated via delete+create. So there is either no error on update or situation needs additional clarification

[UnamedRus]

In case operator is unable to update the service,

It seems, there is no problem with update of service definition itself. it's succeed.

Problem is that result definition is incorrect for code, which use this definition.

[sunsingerus]

Well, we can go as just recreate the service in case of service type change

[alex-zaitsev]

Fixed in 0.23.0, covered by test_012